Proverbs 23:15-16
Wise living brings joy to those who have invested in our lives.
15 My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad, even mine.
16 Yes, my heart will rejoice when your lips speak what is right.
Wise living brings joy to those who have invested in our lives.
To express the deep joy and satisfaction experienced by parents when their children walk in wisdom and speak what is right.
Proverbs 23:15-16 follows Proverbs 23:13-14, which commanded parents not to withhold discipline from a child because discipline is meant to rescue from death. Verses 15-16 show the positive goal of that discipline: a wise heart and upright speech. The movement is important. Proverbs does not present correction as an end in itself. Correction serves formation. The parent’s hope is not merely that folly would be restrained but that wisdom would become internalized. This passage also echoes Proverbs 23:12, which called the learner to apply the heart to instruction and the ears to words of knowledge. Now the teacher rejoices when that instruction has reached the heart and shaped the lips.
In ancient Israel, wisdom instruction was deeply relational. A father, mother, elder, teacher, or sage would instruct the young not merely to transmit information but to shape character, judgment, and speech. Proverbs 23:15-16 expresses the teacher’s joy when instruction succeeds. The learner’s wise heart and right-speaking lips show that wisdom has moved from external command to internal formation. The language of heart and inmost being reflects profound personal joy, not detached educational assessment.
Guarded Desire, Wise Discipline, the Fear of the LORD, and Warnings Against Envy, Gluttony, Lust, and Drunkenness
Wisdom trains the heart to fear the LORD and govern desire, refusing the deceptive pull of rich tables, unstable wealth, foolish company, sexual sin, gluttony, and drunkenness while receiving instruction, discipline, truth, and hope.